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What Trump Was Working With

So we’ve all received the devastating news about this year’s elections, and if I’m honest, the results do not surprise me. See, Trump was working with one of the most powerful Laws of the Universe: the Law of Attraction.

Have you ever heard “the things I fear come upon me” or “what you resist, persists?” Well, Trump had the whole world in fear. And that is precisely what put him where he is now. Continue reading “What Trump Was Working With”

Great Read- Rex Sikes

Once I Become Aware Now What Do I Do? – http://wp.me/p4OhpB-2sW

Mauritius and My Mind

Hello from Mauritius!

One of the perks of being the last-born, is that I get the most sponsored vacations in my life. My sister now has a disposable income, and I am so grateful that she chooses me to go along with her. We’ve always wanted to go to Mauritius (like everyone in the western world, I’m sure) and it’s finally come true!

We’re drawing to the end of our trip, and I have to share a few things about how my mind has been. I am completing my final year thesis and I’m technically graduating in about 2 months. However, there’s a lot going on at my university at the moment, and honestly, this holiday could not have come at a better time.

I wish I could say I’ve been blissfully ignoring the circumstances at university the whole time, but it hasn’t been so easy. There’s an inexplicable need to know what’s going on, even though it’s

  1. predictable
  2. not going to affect me anyway, and
  3. only going to add negativity to my mind.

Staying off Facebook and Twitter has been a challenge. I’ve recently Continue reading “Mauritius and My Mind”

On Being Right

Hello! 👋🏾

I hope you’ve all had a wonderful week. ❤

I’ve been thinking a lot about change. Duh, I know. But as an active feminist on social media, change in an LOA sense is a little difficult to grasp. Being constantly bombarded with all the terrible things that women are subjected to, and trying to draw attention to it is frustrating. So, I’m considering another approach.

I shared a link to a video in a previous post about multiple realities (here), which explains how every person experiences a different Continue reading “On Being Right”

Still alive

Hello 👋 Just peeping in to say that I am still here. My laptop’s been in repairs for a while, so I’m basically living like a cavewoman. Haha I’m kidding (sort of). 

I have many things to write and my baby should be coming back to me within 48hrs.

Much love and happy Wednesday ❤

Subtle Acts of Self-Love

Hello 🙂

So sorry for my apparent silence- I’ve been reading up on a lot of things and recharging. I went through some lows, but I am back in action! YES!

I have some fabulous news, which I shall share in the next post, but I just wanted to share a little something from this weekend. In the effort to show myself more and more love, there are a few things I do for myself. I take myself out on cake-dates, I take breaks from work to listen to a song I love with my full attention, I compliment myself when I’m having  good ass-day…typical things. However, there’s one area I need to work on:

Accepting other people’s acts of kindness.

My best friend is such a lovely person, and I am aware of the fact that I do go Continue reading “Subtle Acts of Self-Love”

Selfishness

Selfishness has a really bad reputation. Understandably so; there are many instances where people are hurt because of people’s selfishness. However, the term can also be used against oneself to be forced to endure toxic circumstances.

My sister is going through a bit of a rough patch with her now-ex landlord. The lease turned out to be illegal, and she was forced to find a new place within a week. She panicked and searched, but I assured her that God would take care of it (my family is religious, so they won’t feel weird about my saying that). I sent out peace, imagined her being happy in her new place and that week she got an awesome new place!

Now, unfinished drama ensued, and yesterday she forwarded us some angry emails between her and the ex-landlord. I found the situation very frustrating Continue reading “Selfishness”

 

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Taking comfort in other people’s lack is not real security, not real confidence. We need to learn to love ourselves and be grateful for what we have no matter what others have!

Make a list! Remind yourself of how many things are awesome about you, how many things you have achieved-big or small. You deserve to feel good in all circumstances.

Much love,

A

Withdrawing from Reality

Hello, awesome humans! 🙂

I’ve been wanting to write about this for a while. Abraham Hicks talks a lot about ignoring ‘What Is’, but I realise I always kinda thought “yes, you’re right!” but I never really took it to heart, and especially not for a significant amount of time. But I want to change that now…

In wanting to alter the world I experience as a black woman, social media can be a huge setback in my vibration. I follow a lot of feminists and gender activists, which can be really encouraging and uplifting sometimes-knowing that people care. However, very often they are pointing out the wrongs, pointing out what needs to change. Which is Step 1…except we always stay there.

In the ways of the Universe, the contrast just gives us an opportunity to decide what we really want. Hence, as soon as I see a gender inequality, I should find a way to formulate that into a request, imagine what it would feel like, believe I can experience it, and let it go to the Universe-focusing entirely on the reality I want to manifest. But I’ve found social media (in some forms and quantities) definitely brings me back to square one. I’m back being angry, believing the world is really fucked up and that there’s no solution. I don’t want to live like that!

I’ve managed to alter how certain people react towards me- the course coordinator I mentioned in Inner Conversations, as well as a friend in my friendship group, who’s much warmer to me than other people describe her as. But I know now, that if I have the power to bring out pleasant sides of these two people, I have the power to bring the best out in men around the world. I have the power to bring out the best in white people, rich people, poor people, you name it. Because when we alter our reality, everything must change on the outside. Imagine how much we could achieve if MILLIONS, even thousands of us, decided to alter our mindsets?

So, as the title suggests, I have been withdrawing from reality this week. I haven’t cut it cold turkey- I go on Facebook for 3 minutes and Twitter to promote my music- but even then, I see some things that could alter my mood if I let them. It’s been great! My affirmations are generating more good feelings, and I’m looking forward to other shifts in my reality.

I’ve also been applying this to my ideal-body goals. Although I don’t weigh myself, I usually lift my shirt up to see if my abs look flatter. It’s an obsessive habit that I picked up during my disordered-eating years that I still need to shake off. I only started that today, though, so I shall post updates on that later 🙂

So tell me: what efforts will you make to focus on your desired reality? Share your thoughts!

 

Much love,

A

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